Sometimes you jut need to hold, sip, ok chug, a cold drink and say WTF~
For those of you have been following my blog you'll remember that there's been a guy I've dated off & on who wasn't ready to date seriously because of the fall out from his divorce.
The last few times we've seen each other I know I've been clear in saying that I was interested in dating him more seriously whenever he was ready. His typical response was that he wasn't there yet, and didn't want to put anyone through hell while he worked through his shit.
Yesterday he called to say that he had started seeing someone seriously and then claimed not to be aware that I had been interested in something more serious.
WTF?
I followed the invite of my good friend Brian who takes a much more light-hearted view of the world than I do, and grabbed some drinks and went to hang out for a few hours looking at the moon and talking about anything else but what was on my mind. It didn't make it go away, but it sure didn't make it any worse!
4 comments:
I guess guys act stupid(and oblivious) well because they are. Ugh.
:-/
Yes, and us guys are just plain blockheads sometimes. We're not all stupid, but I definitely think we are oblivious. Then again, being dishonest or coming up with dumb excuses is just plain weak.
Good writing, Julie. Take care!
Yeah, sometimes a drink will temporarily cure you're confused broken heart, but it's mostly the distraction that does it. Trying to Start Love with someone is hard. But it seems like trying to start something with someone who was divorced would be harder. Especially if you don't really know why that marriage didn't last. Sounds to me like maybe he was the problem in the last relationship? Lack of communication...or ears.
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